If you want to check out my last three posts, check them out
here, I wrote on Evangelism, Community, and Equipping.
I’m not a baby sitter. If you want a good baby sitter talk
to my sister she’s been babysitting since she was in 4th
grade (pretty trusting parents I know!).
But me, I make babies cry when I pick them up. The exception to the rule is the baby in my
twitter picture. Don’t let his
little deceptive smile fool you, he’ll get crying, and get crying good. Especially when he’s hungry! Fortunately for me, I didn’t get a degree in
babysitting. I got one in ministry.
Ministry does not equal babysitting.
The sad thing is I see numbers of student ministry pastors
who are not being intentional in their ministry. The whole idea is to run a program on a
Wednesday night while the parents have a Bible study. Or meet on Sunday morning before church
starts because that’s when everyone meets
.
.
In essence, we are providing a babysitting service while
parents learn, and they hope their kids have some Bible soak into them. And I didn’t get a degree in babysitting, I
got a degree in ministry!
How can we avoid being a babysitting service for parents?
I think we must be intentional and simple in our
process. A couple of really good ministry books that helped
me define what I am doing with my ministry is “Simple Church” by Thom Rainer
and Eric Geiger.
This book talks to the importance of being focused and
simple, on a path to a predetermined goal. Setting a goal will help you reach
it by the programs and ministry format that you set up.
Another book that knocked me in the head in my communication
style was Andy Stanley’s book, “Communicating for a Change.”
The overarching message in these two books scolded the
church and pastors with their preparation style, and if you are honest in your
reading, you most likely fell into the American church’s trap that these books
talked about. Church, has at times over complicated things, which make
understanding of the word, and the vision tough to see. You may have a vision statement, but so often
we do so many different things during the week, we lose track of it.
The simple process I set up was impact, establish, equip
(relating to my previous 3 blog posts). It works. It’s intentional. It’s purposeful. It’s not
babysitting.
What do you think? Have you read either of these books
before? Could your ministry process use a higher dosage of simplification? Or
are you pretty simple and focused where you are? I want to hear from you…
Really insightful! I totally agree that we need a lot less "babysitting" and a lot more teaching of the Word of God in our student ministries, even in the younger groups. I really enjoyed reading your post!
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